Sexual Relationships

There are a lot of decisions that we make daily, and some have little effect and some have life changing effect. Some decisions require more thought than others. Having sex is a decision that requires some thought. Things to think about while deciding to have sex are…

               Are you comfortable having sex with your partner?

               Are you comfortable talking about sex health issues, like how many partners has your partner had in the past or present?

               What birth control methods are you going to use?

               Do you have any concerns about STDs?

If so, get you and your partner tested.

               Has your partner had screenings for STDs?

                              If so, for what STDs, and what they have done after or before the screenings?

               Do you have access to a testing place, and birth control?

               Are your emotions going to play into having sex?

                              If so, how would you feel breaking up after having sex?

               Can you trust your partner with your feelings, if your emotions are going to play into having sex?

               Are you still comfortable, and ready having sex after these questions?

Relationships are complex at times; this may not help you with all of your concerns. You can talk to your partner about having sex, or if you’re comfortable talk to a trust worthy adult or a counselor.